Nibyiza rwose kubakobwa kugura imifuka?

Nkumuguzi mukuru kandi ugura nijoro, ntekereza ko ari ngombwa rwose ko abakobwa bagura imifuka yizina.Ibi ntibiterwa gusa nubwiza nigaragara byimifuka yabashushanyije ubwabo, ariko cyane cyane, bishushanya ikimenyetso cyimibereho nimiterere.
Kubagore, gutunga igikapu cyabashushanyije birashobora gutuma bumva bafite ikizere kandi bishimye.Ibi ntibiterwa gusa nigiciro gihenze cyimifuka yabashushanyije, ariko cyane cyane, mubisanzwe bikozwe mubukorikori bugezweho nibikoresho byiza, bityo gutunga igikapu cyabugenewe birashobora gutuma abagore bumva ko ari abantu bafite ireme kandi bo murwego rwo hejuru.
Ariko, mubuzima busanzwe, imifuka yabashushanyije nayo ifite ibibi.Kurugero, ibirango bimwe bishobora kugira ibibazo byiza, nkuko byagenze kuri Madamu Zhang.Mu bihe nk'ibi, abagore barashobora kumva batengushye kandi bafite umujinya kuko bashoye amafaranga menshi n'amarangamutima batabonye inyungu ziteganijwe.

Dufatiye ku mwuga, iki kibazo gishobora gutera ibibazo byo mu mutwe no guhangayika ku bagore.Bashobora kumva ko ishoramari ryabo ryapfushije ubusa, cyangwa ko imibereho yabo yabangamiwe.Muri ibi bihe, ndizera ko abagore bakeneye guhabwa inkunga no kubatera inkunga, kandi bagahabwa ingamba nziza zo guhangana n’imyumvire yabo.
Mu gusoza, ni ngombwa rwose ko abagore bagura imifuka yabashushanyije, ariko tugomba no kumenya amakosa yabo nibibazo byabo.Nkabasesenguzi ba psychoanalys, dukwiye kubahiriza ibyemezo byubuguzi bwabagore mugihe tunatanga inkunga nziza ningamba zo guhangana nazo kugirango tubafashe guhangana nihungabana rishoboka ryimitekerereze no kutamererwa neza.